No rips in existence

Just as there are no rips or tears in existence (since the non-existence of existence, within existence, would be impossible)... ...There are no rips or tears in your experience. Nothing is wasted - though the relevance of events and occurrences may not be readily apparent or ever apparent. This is the "not-knowing" aspect of the human condition that we must accept. So stay open minded - don't write things/people/etc. off. But at the same time, don't hold onto things because of fear - then you might become a hoarder or neurotic. And don't "try" to notice or glean significance from anything. Not that these are easy things to do but they are likely worth getting better at.